“Nomophobia” ……..And breakfast in Kuwait
Picture a world sans YouTube, WhatsApp, Viber, Facebook, emails, video games, Dropbox, Yahoo, Google, SMS, or a camera at your fingertips.
Sacrilegious in the present context. The universe would presumably be a gloomy spectre. Un-contactable, with absolutely no one to probably chatter, share your memories or just simply be in digital dialogue. The mere thought of being lonely is a distressing concept to many and an unthinkable situation in the modern world of constant information overloading and transmission.
Eighty percent of the world population owns a mobile phone and more than 60 percent of the population claims to suffer from 'nomophobia' - the fear of being without a mobile phone. Some 54 percent of people worry about being 'out of mobile phone contact’ and 17 percent of women suffer from 'nomophobia' than men. A quarter of a people even consult their phones during a dinner date and most tend to take it even to the beach on holidays for fear of losing contact-ability.
Visualize the envisaged doom the prohibition of mobile phones would probably bring upon us.…..OMG!
But for a moment, just stop!……. Imagine a person that does not require or use one…and if one does exist, would the individual be castigated from a tech-savvy modern society?
Incomprehensibly, I happen to stumble upon one; A unique individual who does not feel the need for a mobile phone. Comprehend that in an environment constantly requiring one to check an avalanche of online updates from services and safety to world happenings, rosters, flight details, flight preparation to passing exams.
I met her at breakfast in Kuwait whilst the entire crew was at the restaurant with a mobile phone, speaking fleetingly to the present. Monalie was enjoying her meticulously served food on her plate with absolute pleasure and speaking eloquently to all at the table with equal attention given to every little detail around her, except to any tech device.
Intrigued, I venture to inquire. The lady confesses to never having the necessity to ever carry or own a mobile phone. Her mode of communication is through the land phone at home or through her mom’s mobile phone, which is in its basic status. To fulfil her job functions, she carries a laptop computer, updates it whenever time permits and uses Skype, if in dire requirement and in rarity.
Furthermore, she is also an undergraduate at a National University and uses the same laptop for her academic functions. Her tendency is to give prominence to “call booths” or communication kiosks in Sri Lanka and as a crew member, she explains that she is always ready in advance and geared with all the information, literally by memory or through a little paper notebook.
Eventually, the inevitable dilemma cascades upon me. We are breathlessly dependent upon our mobile devices which become incoherently omnipresent in our lives.
In this minuscule world that we have fabricated for ourselves and through a blast of marketing gimmicks by the large mobile companies around the world, the surrounding has become a phantom. We are to ourselves. Not to our families, friends, country and the world, but selfishly to “ourselves.”
Therefore, I need to relish this breakfast… A rich cheese omelette with mushroom, fruity yoghurt, buttered croissant, and the honey glazed waffle to friendly joyous chatter and laughter in synchronized bliss.
Let’s at the least, be incommunicado at breakfast….and start smiling….LOL!
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